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To not want 'it' tonight

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Jessiepops Thu 01-Jan-15 00:30:18

So it's nearly 12:30, we've had a quiet one at home, done the New Years kisses, the kids are asleep and he's giving me the eye.

I know what he wants,,, but I don't want it!

AIBU? I'm tipsy, I know he's had a few so it's hardly going to be thrilling experience, and it takes so bloody long when he's had a drink!

I'm considering waking the kids up for an excuse to get out of it wink

radiobedhead Thu 01-Jan-15 00:33:31

Just say no thanks.


Bulbasaur Thu 01-Jan-15 00:35:23

What radio said. Why do you need an excuse to "get out of it"?

I just tell DH I'm not feeling up for it, he does the same, and that's that. We cuddle and fall asleep.

Sex is suppose to be fun for both parties, it's not an obligation or wifely duty.

kali110 Thu 01-Jan-15 00:35:53

Not tonight dear, i'v got a headache ��

kwerty Thu 01-Jan-15 00:42:02

Leave the bastard!

Jessiepops Thu 01-Jan-15 01:04:18

Ok,,, so waking the kids up and needing an excuse was a joke (hence he wink face) I don't need an excuse I can just say no.

Ment this as a lighthearted post!

ZingTheGreat Thu 01-Jan-15 01:08:41

oh lighthearted?

kill him

Frizzcat Thu 01-Jan-15 01:09:55

Obvious it was lighthearted so carry on Jessie or at least it was to me anyway.... Also slightly tipsy.
Personally I'm thinking of divorcing my dh. I've just caught him laughing at Mrs Browns boys. winkhmm

PiperIsTerrysChoclateOrange Thu 01-Jan-15 01:11:12

Just lay back and fantasise about someone you fancy.

( as it lighthearted it's meant as lighthearted)

Frizzcat Thu 01-Jan-15 01:17:51

Is it definitely lighthearted? Are you sure it's not triggering?

radiobedhead Thu 01-Jan-15 01:22:23

Oh right, light hearted. 'LOL.'

(I don't get it?)

Jessiepops Thu 01-Jan-15 01:22:25

It's lighthearted!! He's asleep on the sofa with one of the dogs at the moment!
But honestly we've all had that moment when the OH looks at us and we think "oh just fuck off!" grin

whatnow2 Thu 01-Jan-15 01:45:28

I never have that moment sadly. Sex is quite rare here so any hint that h might be interested (and the hint will only happen once we are in bed) and I am totally up for it - always grin.

ZingTheGreat Thu 01-Jan-15 01:47:23

has he shaved also?
that's the sign

Bulbasaur Thu 01-Jan-15 01:47:33

With all the asshole "D"P's on here, it's hard to tell. smile

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