We have a family new years day, have always done it and for the last 8 or so years i have hosted it.
My mother was hurt before xmas as my sister wasnt going to spend xmas day with her ( nor the rest of us) and yet again hadnt invited anyone over. Noone ever gets an invite as my sister ' doesnt do family, and if she does she has to have us all and she doesnt want that'
Anyway, mum was hurt over xmas and spent a good week complaining how nice it would be to be invited somewhere, I always contribute, i cook their ham and take 7-8 dishes and made mince pies to take too. Sister took nothing but still turned up and ate all of boxing day.
Mum said its not an issue for me as i have hosted xmas day before and im on my own and working crazy hours and i always do new years day.
She made a big song and dance over the fact that my sister was unfair to leave people out and she would never do that etc etc.
i find out that my sister has organsed a meal tonight, at hers, with my mum and me and DD were not invited.
I am very hurt, have said so and have been told im being discusting to even say im hurt and how dare i.
They said they wouldnt even think of asking me as i had been at work and they knew i would be organising things for the party tomorrow... which is for them!
Ive been in floods of tears.
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to be hurt by this or do i need to get a grip
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vintagecrap · 31/12/2014 20:15
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