Years ago when I was still a teenager we were driving back from picking up another friend at her house and were headed back to mine when my one friend driving the car accidentally struck and killed a pedestrian.
It is a long weird story, but in short the guy just stood in the street raised his glass and smiled at us as my friend struck him. He thought we were some people he had been having a fight with earlier. My friend was not wearing his glasses while driving and unfortunately was looking away, so did not notice him until too late and I opened my mouth to yell stop but nothing came out.
I have suffered PTSD for years now and even attended therapy for it, which did not help. I also suffer chronic nightmares as a result of the PTSD.
My DH knows about what happened and still drives like a fricken ass. His thing is he does not need to slow down because to him someone who crosses the street in front of a car should know damn well they better move fast and out of the way before a car comes. I have repeatedly asked him to slow down when we see someone crossing on the street and have explained how much this bothers me and sets me back, but he does not seem to care and acts like I am the one with the problem only.
Am I being unreasonable here or is he?
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To wish he would just stop or slow down?
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mawinter · 30/12/2014 21:07
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