DH and I were staying at my PiL's over Christmas. I don't particularly get on with them (I have always had the impression that they rather disapprove of me as my family is not nearly as smart as theirs) but on the surface we have always rubbed along fine.
On Boxing Day, I came downstairs before dinner to join DH, PiL and SiLs in the sitting room. FiL was getting champagne for everyone and offered me a glass. I said no and he said something along the lines of, "Oh that's a shame but mind you, I think it's fair to say you did have one or two glasses yesterday". He said it in a sort of jokey way and the others sort of laughed awkwardly, but it was pretty awkward and it made me feel awful. I did have a few drinks on Christmas Day - maybe five glasses of champagne/wine or something - and I was tipsy but certainly not staggering around or anything - managed perfectly well helping with the cooking and looking after my DC and nieces and nephews and talking to various guests, etc.
I laughed it off and left the room but was really upset. AIBU to think it was a mean thing to say? We don't have a jokey relationship at all so I don't think it was just "banter" or anything. Or am I being overly sensitive?
Please or to access all these features
Please
or
to access all these features
AIBU?
To think this is a rude thing to have said to a guest?
61 replies
PalominoPony · 30/12/2014 13:46
OP posts:
Don’t want to miss threads like this?
Weekly
Sign up to our weekly round up and get all the best threads sent straight to your inbox!
Log in to update your newsletter preferences.
You've subscribed!
Please create an account
To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.