I see my dad once a year roughly (only extra if there's a wedding or something). This is pretty much his choice we have a difficult history since my mum died when I was a teenager and the relationship just faded away.
They are supposed to be visiting today , my grandmother and step mother are with him. My grandmother has a chest infection, my step mother a virus (temp etc) and to top it off the went to my sisters house yesterday (for her yearly visit) and she is currently in the midst of a sickness bug which has her dh and 2 children throwing up.
I called my dad this morning and there was some disagreement over whether or not they should come today. He won - they are coming . But my grandmother was shouting in the background she is never coming again I don't think anyone will ever speak to me once today is over.
We have 5 children under 10 years old, we both work full time one illness getting into the house is difficult and expensive . We still have to pay childcare and we are self employed and so we don't work we don't get paid.
Was I being unreasonable to have this conversation with them? Am I in the wrong here?
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Aubrianna · 30/12/2014 11:06
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