I have recently became a parent for the first time and have a 2 month old son. I am coming here to look for advice or similar experiences of what I have been experiencing.
My wife and I always enjoyed a good sex life, but were never at it like bunnies prior to trying for our son. But enjoyed intimate things such as cuddling and kissing.
Since our child is born my wife no longer wishes to cuddle or even a kiss in the morning as I leave for work. Every slight advance in terms of a cuddle or any slight contact is being misconstrude as I am angling for sex/sexual activity. I haven't asked or even implied that is what I am after. I am starting to feel as if I am some sort of pervert attempting to gain some affection and being rebuffed.
I am not here looking for sympathy or do I want to come off as insensitive to the fact that my wife gave birth to our child 2 months ago. I understand she is tired and looking after our son is hard work. I do just as much when I am not working and I try to make things as easy as possible when I am home.
I just want to gain some closeness back to my wife which I feel has been lost somewhere along the line.
Am i being in unreasonable to want to have some intimacy with my wife this soon?
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Notsureanymore14 · 28/12/2014 00:20
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