Back story, DH's widowed aunt has been increasingly relying on us for company, chores and hot meals since her husband died 3 years ago. Visits have gone from once a week to 2-3 times per week and she has started to show signs of jealousy if we see anyone else. She insists we go on holiday together constantly and invited herself on our last trip. We know she is grieving and incredibly lonely so we generally let it go.
This aunt has a lot of money. She is extremely generous to us in the way of buying us gifts. But constantly. She buys stuff all the time, but mostly for me. Some of the gifts are really pricey - think tickets to shows, posh restaurants, clothes for the children from higher end shops. I have asked her on two occasions to stop buying us things - it is too much. I am not ungrateful by any means but the sheer volume and cost is enormous. Both times she stared crying and went on and on about how it makes her happy, and begged me not to try and stop her. DH thinks she is trying to buy us.
So this Xmas she is with us. DH bought me a gift, I had wanted since I was a teenager. Think decent brand handbag, about £150. Something I never would buy myself but always wanted. He hid it at her house.
DH's aunt then came to me on Xmas Eve when DH was at work. She had wrapped the gift, and written on a tag: From the boys.
She said that I had to open it there are then. That DH had told her to give it to me. I thought it was odd, but thought maybe she had bought me something 'from the boys' and just wanted me to have it. She has form for this.
So I unwrap it. See what it is. Shocked!!! She tells me to call DH and thank him. So I am really confused. I call but he doesn't answer, so I text him.
DH then goes mad!!! He gets really upset. It meant a lot to him to give me that and it cost him money we don't have.
I told the aunt he isn't happy and she says it was a mistake, that she misunderstood when he asked her to bring it to the house and put it under the tree, she had thought she had to give it to me.
DH thinks she has some bonkers agenda and is mad.
I have no idea why she would get it soooo wrong. What do you think? Sorry for the long post!!!
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GertyD · 27/12/2014 10:47
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