DH is booked to have a tooth extraction in the New Year. However since Christmas Eve the tooth has started to rot and he's been in agony.
I told him to go to the out of hours surgery and see the emergency dentist. However he won't - this is a common occurance, refusal to see a doctor/dentist when something is wrong. I think it's because he associates seeking help as a weakness and NOTHING is worse in DHs eyes than being weak. Think this is a result of an incredibly tough-love and unempathetic father and being in the Army for so long. He always says something like "I can cope with the pain/it's not bad enough to see a doctor" etc
Anyway he's still moaning about being in pain so I've given him 2 options -
- Go and see the emergency dentist tonight
- Stop complaining about it to me because I really have no time for people who choose to be in pain when pain relief and medical attention are easily available.
He sulked off
AIBU and mean?