Long story shortish DP was showing me a group convo he has on FB with a few friends of his internationally. We started to scroll up to get to a joke that a friend had told him ages ago. Anyway scrolled way too far back and got to when DP and I had just started dating. One friend, lets call her S, tells the group DP has a new lady. Another friend asks what she (me) is like.
S replies 'shes a bloody darkie!!' with some ha ha ha's afterwords. I am mixed race, half black half white and really don't think that's an ok thing to say. I am not upset exactly but slightly deflated to think that of all the things S could have said, e.g. shes a lovely girl, she's pretty, etc, the only thing she considered to be of note about me was my skin colour. DP didn't say anything in response to it which also made me a bit .
Hhmmm, AIBU? How would you feel?
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AIBU?
to be somewhat offended by this?
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myfurbyisalive · 23/12/2014 20:20
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