Bit of background... DH and I have been together total of three years. Dh has known his best mate (best man at our wedding) since he was eleven and the rest of his close friends since college. Naturally whe I met them I did my very best to be friendly etc and was hoping I might end up getting close with them all given that we make three couples. I have never been given an impression that I was not liked or getting things wrong.
Best friend and wife had a son about 18 months ago and since then we have seen them maybe six times down from every fortnight ish. This situation has gotten worse and worse to the point we now haven't seen them since our wedding July. I've just discovered that other couple (not involving best friend) have just had a baby shower for their LO due in a few weeks to which we were not invited or had any knowledge of. We have tried our very best to be accomodating with DH best mates son, offered baby sitting, dinners, chores, company and anything else we could think of to no avail. They only live ten minutes away.
I know DH is really gutted about how rubbish they are being. I know their priorities have now shifted (completely understandable) but surely DH still deserves his closest friends to make him a priority occasionally? Of course we don't expect to be pubbing it any more but given how much we've tried it seems really rubbish of them to be so out of touch? They dain to return texts after a week if we're lucky.
We don't have DC yet so go out of our way to fit in with their plans and make their lives easier.
DH is gutted by this behaviour and it makes me so upset to see him so sad about this
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To be completely pissed off with DH's friends?
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quellerosiel · 23/12/2014 00:48
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