Dp and I separated in October and all is well, very amicable for the children's sake. We have ds1 13 (mine from previous marriage) and ds2 5 together.
The plan was for ex to come over first thing Christmas morning to see kids with open their presents, all well and good as far as I was concerned.
Then ex phones earlier and says that his parents also want to come over on Christmas morning, lovely I thought, until he says that they want to come and give ds2 his presents themselves but don't have anything for ds1 (not their "proper grandson").
I am furious, we were together for 9 years and every year we were together both children got presents from them.
I am furious and have said that unless they bring something for both boys then they can't come over at all. Ex is furious with me because he thinks I'm trying to stop his parents seeing their grandson.
Am I really being unreasonable though, because I know ds1 will feel like shit if they turn up with something just for his brother.
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To not let ds's grandparents visit Christmas Day?
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Mumoftwomonkeys1976 · 20/12/2014 17:58
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