Am I being unreasonable to feel undesired? My partner and I have a good sex life but since the start of our relationships he has never had spontaneous erections. It was a bit of a shock when we first slept together as he required quite a lot of manual help to get it up . Sometimes he fails to get one altogether or it goes soft in the middle of sex. I have told him I dont mind; as we women are trained to do! However, I am getting put off having sex with him as a result. He has occasionally managed to get spontaneous erections in the morning and when he is really relaxed but they are infrequent. Today I told him that its a problem for me and makes me feel less sexy and he got very upset about it as he thinks as long as he can manage to get an erection manual stimulation should not be an issue! He is only 27 so its not a health or age related problem. Any thoughts? Am I being a bitch?
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erectile problems- no spontaneous erections
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Taradeliah · 18/12/2014 16:47
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