OK so I have a rather frivolous attitude to money, I admit I love having it, spending it (not into debt) enjoy lovely things in life and get excited by treats and even more so- buying gifts for others.
I love Christmas. my mum and younger brother on other hand are totally opposite- question cost of everything, constantly talking about things being rip off's/over priced/saving £2 off something/ not buying anything new and my brother ruins restaurants looking at menu saying it's all overpiced & he could cook cheaper at home etc..... realise none of these is perfect but some way in middle.
A few years ago my mum decided, with my younger brother (naturally) and my uncle & aunt who join us at Christmas to have a “no present policy”… My mum still gets us a little something and we her- but that’s it. Complete. For all gust. I feels sad hearing everyone else excitedly talking about buying their gifts/what they want and sit there feeling our family is just really sad and odd in this formal, set no pressie policy!!
Its part of Christmas and pressies don’t even need to be expensive? I had a DS last year and really don’t want him ever hearing about this weird boring policy and feeling Christmas in our house is different because of it. Gifts under tree/ everyone ripping open wrapping paper open and excitedly looking at new gifts is now a distant but much loved memory of my younger Christmases.
What do you think?
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BurbGirl2013 · 16/12/2014 11:38
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