DS had his first birthday last week. He is still breastfed and hadn't once slept through the night or managed to settle himself to sleep. I do all night wakings myself and it was really starting to take its toll on me.
On Wednesday I discovered I had a MMC. Long story cut short I was rushed back to hospital that night as the foetus was stuck in the neck of my womb causing full blown contractions and very heavy bleeding. I had to have this removed via forceps whilst I was wide awake and felt the whole thing. It was horrendous and didn't sleep a wink that night.
On Thursday night I was so tired that when DS woke up, it took me a while to wake up enough to get up and go to him. To my surprise he stopped crying and fell back to sleep. This happened twice more during the night and he ended up staying from 8pm-9am in his own bed, which meant I finally got a semi decent nights sleep. Same goes for Friday and Saturday he was settling himself to sleep and I was sleeping well.
Well last night DS wakes up at about 1am. He wasn't crying but whinging and I could hear that he was fighting going back to sleep. After explaining to DP that I wasn't going to go and get him as he had been doing so well and I didn't want to undo it all by bringing him into bed and popping him on my boob as soon as he cried. DP then decides to go and get him anyway. Hands him to me and fucking goes to sleep! Cue DS not wanting to go back to bed ALL NIGHT and I haven't slept at all.
I am absolutely furious still. Three nights he managed to stay in his own bed. Within a few more days we would have cracked it I'm sure. That absolute bell end.
Aibu to think that if you interfere with controlled crying/night time then you should stay awake and help deal with it, not roll over and go to sleep?
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to think you just don't interfere with controlled crying and then go straight to sleep.
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sarkymare · 15/12/2014 10:08
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