I had paid for my old works xmas do, was due to go tonight. Am still on good terms with everyone even though I left 4 months ago.
I text a few yesterday asking how they were getting there, did they want to share a cab, sometimes the office organises a mini cab etc. Was told 'not sure' and my other friend was getting a lift with someone who lives close to her so she was out of the equation.
So I asked my friend who said 'not sure' again today if she knew what she was doing and she said sorry, she was driving but she had given all the spaces in her car to people. These are people that all drive/have partners who drive, so all had other options. I am disabled so if there were no lifts and no cab spaces, my only option is the bus. Or £20 for a cab on my own.
So I set out on the journey an hour before the start time and the bus took an age! It made me miss for the second bus, so I waited 20 mins for the next one to arrive and by then there was still a tube journey and a long walk ahead of me. I'd have been 30 mins late and it was so cold I eventually thought Sod this, Im going back home because I could just not face another hours journey on the way home later that night.
So as not to drip feed I will mention another incident a few weeks ago that was a bit similar, ie them not thinking. I asked them to save me some tickets for my son and DN's to an event they were hosting for the kids. I was told people had to ask the office to hold tickets so I did. When I got there, having travelled for 45 mins on the bus, I was told No, tickets had to be held in advance and because i didnt call the office, so no one had saved me any so there were none for the kids. I'd only emailed, text, and whatsapped....
So basically, AIBU to think that just ONE of them could have thought "Hows Babe getting there tonight, maybe one of us could save her a space or share a cab with her, as we all know she has no other transport and as she has been asking how we are all getting there so maybe we could consider her too?"
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babewiththepower · 13/12/2014 21:01
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