DH thinks that I am being slightly unreasonable Bil thinks I am definitely am.
A few weeks ago Bil called up to say he had been given free tickets to the panto in Birmingham and could get some extra tickets for me, Dh and our 2 dd's we said that thanks that would be lovely, at no point was the time of the panto mentioned
DH spoke to Bil about some other stuff and bil mentioned the panto was an evening show but he wasn't sure of the time.
I checked out the times myself and it is a late showing of the panto and as it is over 2 hours we would not be able to get home until 11.30 at night, we would be travelling by train and the return train is at 10.30.
I told DH that this is too late for our children and that we will cancel, he got a bit huffy and said it would be rude to cancel after saying yes. I said though that if Bil had given us the information earlier we would never have accepted.
So DH called his brother today, who did not take it well at all,thinks we are being too strict on our kids etc etc.
I do feel bad for cancelling but think Bil should have given us details earlier and I think he should understand why I don't fancy having 2 kids out in Birmingham at that time and that they are going to be fairly grumpy staying up that late anyway. The kids are 10 & 7 so I know they are not really young but they are not night owls at all.
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groovejet · 13/12/2014 20:47
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