Hi, my DH of 12 years left me while I was having cancer treatment this year; he left me for his little tart who is half his age. I have two small children and now want to make a will in case this aggressive B*stard of a disease gets me. I live in fear that soon-to-be-Ex-DH will marry the silly little tart as soon as he can...and then if I die and they divorce, won't she get half of MY house? The one I've been paying half the mortgage on for 12 years? And then what happens to my children? I am trying to protect my kids and sadly get my affairs in order so please be kind because unless you've been in this position it is hard to imagine how scary it is.
Questions -
Can I somehow protect the kids and if so how?
Do I have to tell STBExHusband about my new will?
Do I have to leave any of the house to him or can I leave all my part to the kids and therefore they'll get 50% if I die and he gets 50%? So they either all live here or it gets sold and 50% of the profits go into my kids bank accounts? (and won't my exhusband just withdraw it from their accounts as the adult on their accounts?)
I have savings - can I put in the will that this is to go the kids education, either privately or for university and if not used for this, for their inheritance at age 25? Otherwise the silly girlfriend will just spend it.
Can I state that certain people (my brother) are not to receive anything, or is it the case that if I don't mention them specifically to receive something in the will, then they won't get anything?
Can I state that certain people (my brother) are never to have unsupervised access to my children?
Can I specify my preference for guardians if I happen to die after my STBExHusband? (& who would the children be automatically 'offered' to if not? Are grandparents and uncles and aunts automatically asked if they can care for the children?)
Sorry for all the questions - I think there are some legal whizzes around this board and I'd be grateful for your input.
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bottomsup2 · 09/12/2014 19:14
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