Loads of other issues going on (thread in relationships) but this one thing has cut me more than anything else.
Last night DP rationally and calmly said that we're not a family and I shouldn't think of us as one. He explained that me and him are a couple. I have kids and he has kids therefore we are a unit overall but we are not a family and never will be.
I feel so hurt by this. More than anything else he's ever said. It feels like he regarded his ex wife and kids as his family and he'll never hold me in the same light.
That's so fucking hurtful. We're supposedly engaged and yeah, as said in my other thread there are a host of other problems anyway but the fact that he thinks like this has just gutted me. AIBU?
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To think DP was out of order for saying we're not a family?
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Bogwasher · 09/12/2014 16:01
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