Dh buys a new camera about a year ago. Takes millions of photos on it. (In the 20 years we have been together I have done all photography, all going through memory cards, choosing which to print out, printing them out, putting them in albums etc.) This year he gets round to going through his pics - about 7000 of them. Many of birds and animals (keen on wildlife) and loads taken using the option that takes a photo every milli-second.
I've been asking him to do it for ages so I can go through them and find photos for Xmas calendars. So he finally does it the last two weeks then I go through them fir a final check/delete. He gave me the last memory card last night and asked me to go through it today as he wants to get it printed out. I pointed out I had been asking him to do it for ages and why should he expect me to do it instantly. He got shirty: why is it his job to go through all the pics? I took some too! I pointed out I had done it all for years and he said 'Oh, you always turn everything back round like that.' Then sulked.
Also, I said the other day, Oh we need to write Christmas cards soon. he said, 'yes you do'. I called him on it and he basically said that since I'd been doing them for years, why didn't I carry on? So I said he could do his own family and friends.
Then last night in the middle of our camera card discussion, he said, 'How would you like it if I went on all the time, I earn all the money, I earn all the money?' which I was really upset about. A, I work FT too now the dc are older. B, I keep telling him to take it easy, we don't need all the money he earns. C, it has fuck all to do with what we were arguing about and D, it made me think that he EXPECTS me to do all the wife work and Christmas and EVERYTHING, just because he's the main breadwinner! What a twat.
Sorry this is so long. So, AIBU?? Where do we go from here?
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CocktailQueen · 08/12/2014 09:16
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