MN Jury, please vote yes or no on this...

[WinterGloves]

My Ex is an idiot. He will argue over any little thing and thinks his word is law. I am always wrong and 'stupid' according to him. But I'm pretty sure I'm actually not 'stupid' in this case.

He has given 22 month old DS this little bouncy rubber ball. He was chewing on it when he dropped him off yesterday and I took it off him as I thought it was dangerous and a choking hazard.

Ex got very angry and said I was controlling what he gave our children and that I was stupid. He told DS that 'mummy was being mean and that he wasn't allowed any toys'

I've posted a photo of the ball, next to a tea spoon so you can see the size of it.

Was I unreasonable?

[Shesparkles]

You're absolutely not wrong, or an idiot. These balls are not suitable for such a young child

[notsogoldenoldie]

Ywnbu. That ball is tiny.

[Ifyourawizardwhydouwearglasses]

YANBU.
You really have to wonder about some people's thought processes!

[Chumhum]

Choking hazard, very irresponsible to give this to a young child.

[Allalonenow]

YANBU
But your Ex is being an idiot!

[Charitybag]

YANBU.

[FamiliesShareGerms]

YANBU - if it fits in their mouths it's too small for them

[JT05]

YANBU t all. This TOTTALLY unacceptable and neglectful.

[SkyHighWhy]

It's a very small ball. YANBU.

[owlbegoing]

Another vote for YANBU
Your ex needs to engage his brain before he gives your DS something!!

[BuilderMammy]

Definitely a choking hazard.

[PurpleWithRed]

how to deal with choking - maybe send him the link seeing he has no common sense at all

[WinterGloves]

He really thought I was just trying to piss him off. He started ranting and swearing over it. I can't believe I actually had a relationship with him, what was I thinking

[Ketchuphidestheburntbits]

I can see why he's your ex!

YANBU

[DoraGora]

Does sound as though he makes a habit of exercising his professional stupidity skills on a permanent basis. I'd be into chucking stupid things away and shutting the door in his face.

[CadleCrap]

YANBU and he is a twat

[rumbleinthrjungle]

YANBU.

Not just about 'our child might actually die' but also in the stomp, pout and tell the child passive aggressive crap like a thwarted seven year old.

Reading through MN this morning, are there any sensible, normal, non wankerish men left anywhere on the planet who are even half way decent partners or parents and have made it to emotional adulthood? Please, someone reassure me!

[fluffyraggies]

He's an idiot.

[sashh]

WTF?

Does he know why pen lids have holes?

[youarekiddingme]

Well no guesses needed to determine why he's your Ex

Yanbu. Those toys state not suitable for children under 3yo for a reason. I wouldn't even let my 10yo who still outs things in his mouth have one! There's plenty they can play with without it needing to be something dangerous to them.

[MissMarplesBloomers]

YANBU- I hate those little toys for kids. I bet part of his anger at you was becasue he knows you are right & he doesn't like that.

rumble I often think that but I guess we only hear about the twatfaces on here as the nice guys partners/DW are reading these threads thinking WTAF???

[YouTheCat]

He's an idiot.

[Icimoi]

The only stupid person here is your ex.

If he won't believe you, suggest he asks someone like a Health Visitor.

[raltheraffe]

Supreme Judge RalTheRaffe says he is an irresponsible wanker.

[RufusTheReindeer]

Yanbu

He is being an idiot, I don't know what people think sometimes

Or don't think