We had a childrens party on the calendar for last weekend, a friend who has now moved an lives an hour away. It was scheduled to start at 11 am. We were supposed to give a lift to another friend and her DC. All the kids are 3.
Now, friend having party has quite a small social circle, and the scheduled attendees at the party are only my DS, DC I'm giving a lift to, and two other DC from our NCT group.
Of course, DS wakes up yesterday unwell and pretty quickly vomits everywhere, whingey, moans, has temp and just wants to sleep all day, which he did. Cancelled attendance with sincere apologies and obviously let friend I was giving a lift to that we wouldn't be taking her.
This obviously meant other friend couldn't go, and reduced party attendance by 50%. I feel terrible about this but now I'm getting a bit of stick/snidely comments from one of the other attendees about how I should have still given friend a lift. How sad it was to see birthday boy without anyone at the party, how I'd said I'd give the lift and if it were her, well, she always sticks by her word etc etc. I suspect this has originated from birthday mum and she was annoyed when I cancelled.
Should I have still given a lift? I could have taken friend and left DS with DH but it was an hour away! Two hour round trip to give someone else a lift to a three year olds party just didn't seem reasonable to me.
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Not to give someone a lift to a party when I've promised I will?
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Boysclothes · 07/12/2014 08:27
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