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to make dp come home to clean this mess up (warning: may put you off dinner)

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NamesNick Sat 06-Dec-14 18:10:06

dp has just gone to his mates to watch footie leaving me with the four dc (dd and 3 dss)

youngest dss (3 yrs) has just smeared shit all over the bathroom and himself!

I told dp this and his response was ' ha ha ha I taught him that'

ive told dp to come home and clean it up. he is on his way.

serves him bleedin right for laughing

I have showered dss but I am not cleaning the rest of it up.

am I being unreasonable?

woowoo22 Sat 06-Dec-14 18:10:56

He taught him that? WTAF?

juicycelebrity Sat 06-Dec-14 18:11:48

He actually taught him to do that? There are no words that would express my rage.

honeysucklejasmine Sat 06-Dec-14 18:13:10

He what?! YADNBU!

Darquesse Sat 06-Dec-14 18:14:05

How on earth would he teach him that?

Aeroflotgirl Sat 06-Dec-14 18:14:13

Omg how old is your partner, 4!!!

NamesNick Sat 06-Dec-14 18:14:34

the comment from dp was him trying to be funny.

he did not teach him that.

just his twatty sense to f humour

LumpenproletariatAndProud Sat 06-Dec-14 18:14:38

He was joking though? When I tell my ex one of the boys has done something naughty he will tell me that he taught them that. Jokingly though.

I really hope your DH is joking....

LumpenproletariatAndProud Sat 06-Dec-14 18:14:54

Phew!

brokenhearted55a Sat 06-Dec-14 18:16:04

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NamesNick Sat 06-Dec-14 18:17:31

brokenhearted. I did think of that but it would just make it worse.

omg the smell angry

brokenhearted55a Sat 06-Dec-14 18:19:33

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addictedtosugar Sat 06-Dec-14 18:25:52

Yep, 4 yr old cleaning up a poo in pants accident was a disaster, and much harder for us to clean up, but I think it made him realise quite what a horrible job it was. Since 3 yr old is already filthy, I'd make him start cleaning it up.
And DP can do the rest.

Got any fabreeze or air freshener?

NamesNick Sat 06-Dec-14 19:03:19

is it bad that I am secretly pleased that dp has missed footie and is not happy smile

Euphemia Sat 06-Dec-14 19:29:19

Why are you making him come back? Are you punishing him for having time off?

Alibabaandthe40nappies Sat 06-Dec-14 19:34:33

It is bad actually, shows a deep problem in your relationship IMO.

NamesNick Sat 06-Dec-14 19:35:32

no euphemia.
I made him come back to clean it because when I told him about it he found it amusing and made a twatty comment.

Lifesalemon Sat 06-Dec-14 19:36:18

If he didn't teach him that (which i really hope he didnt) why does he have to come home and clean up and miss his football? Have I missed something here? If it had happened when you where out with your mates would you have had to come home and clean up?

londonrach Sat 06-Dec-14 19:41:03

Sorry what did he teach your 3 year old ds? To kick football or poo. If later dh needs to become either become ex dh or owes you a huge box of chocolate, wine and offer to clear the bathroom. grin

NamesNick Sat 06-Dec-14 19:43:33

basically I always get the short straw. having to clean up after everyone all the time.
quite frankly I am fed up with the expectation that I am the cook cleaner and slave in this house.
so after being out all day btw at various footie things, while I watch the four children he dumps on me last minute that he is off out again.

then the shit incident happens.

I tell dp, he thinks it's funny. so I ask him to come home and clean it up.

brokenhearted55a Sat 06-Dec-14 19:46:40

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Alibabaandthe40nappies Sat 06-Dec-14 20:04:46

Is he basically using you as his childcare for the time he has his kids, so that he can carry on with his life as normal?

What used to happen before you had a child together?

Lomega Sat 06-Dec-14 20:05:39

Why in any giddy aunt's name would you teach a child to smear shit everywhere. that is the epitomy of gross.

Gruntfuttock Sat 06-Dec-14 20:08:35

It was just a joke,*Lomega*.

bonzo77 Sat 06-Dec-14 20:11:20

YANBU. I'm with you. If he thinks it's so fucking funny lets see how funny it is first hand and at close quarters. Twat.

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