I have been non contact with my parents for about 2 years, due to them being very mentally abusive to me for my whole life. My sister is the favoured child.
I have 3 DC, including a 16 year old DD from a previous relationship. During the non contact time my DD and parents have kept in touch, and DD visits them regularly. I have tried to explain to DD why I am non contact with parents and why I think she shouldn't see them too (they have tried to be emotionally abusive to her at times, in my opinion). DD says that if I stop her seeing my parents then she will move out and go and live with her father (who is equally as abusive as my parents)
DD has now announced that she is going to spend Christmas at my parents house.
I'm so upset. WWYD in this situation? I guess I just have to let her go, don't I?
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strawberryella · 05/12/2014 23:29
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