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AIBU to think that calling a 15yo

(34 Posts)
AnonButRegular Thu 04-Dec-14 16:34:18

A slag is unacceptable, especially coming from a grown woman?

Who happens to be your daughters boyfriends mother angry

Lookslikeimstuckhere Thu 04-Dec-14 16:35:35

I think that's unacceptable too. What a cow. She's best off out of that relationship!

Bowlersarm Thu 04-Dec-14 16:35:38

Yep, not good OP. what happened?

MarchEliza Thu 04-Dec-14 16:42:12

Bad. Really bad. (YANBU)

ChoochiWoo Thu 04-Dec-14 16:46:45

why is she calling her a slag? did she cheat on her son?

usualsuspectsparkly3 Thu 04-Dec-14 16:50:33

It's unacceptable to call any woman or girl a slag.

WooWooOwl Thu 04-Dec-14 16:51:55

It's not very nice, but when I was 15 there there were a lot of girls around who were indeed slags given the meaning of the word.

You might be better off concentrating on your dds relationship and the reasons for there being animosity between herself and her boyfriends mother rather than focussing on the use of the word slag.

FrauHelgaMissMarpleandaChuckle Thu 04-Dec-14 16:51:58

Totally out of order.

Whereisegg Thu 04-Dec-14 16:52:54

Yanbu shock How do you know she said it?

Pumpkinpositive Thu 04-Dec-14 16:53:33

Of course it's wrong.

But you haven't given any background to this story, so no one can say exactly how wrong.

usualsuspectsparkly3 Thu 04-Dec-14 16:56:09

Just the girls who were slags then, Woo?

madsadbad Thu 04-Dec-14 16:57:31

My language is terrible, but I hate and don't use words such as slag, slut etc.
Any person calling a person them is a nobber, but an adult calling a child them is sickening.

madsadbad Thu 04-Dec-14 16:58:42

Of course usual you know them lads, just being lads, sewing their seeds, doing what lads do...hmm

PortofinoVino Thu 04-Dec-14 17:00:58

She's best off out of that relationship! said Lookslike.

Why? He may be a perfectly respectable, hard working lad, who has managed to drag himself out in a good way despite his mother confused

lem73 Thu 04-Dec-14 17:04:04

There is no need to hear a background story. It's an unacceptable word used to judge women for their behaviour made even worse when there exists no male equivalent.
I suspect this was just hurled at the op's dd as a casual insult rather than having a basis.

DoJo Thu 04-Dec-14 17:05:25

when I was 15 there there were a lot of girls around who were indeed slags given the meaning of the word

Stony waste matter? Or girls who had sex? And what about the boys they were having sex with?

squoosh Thu 04-Dec-14 17:12:09

It's never reasonable to use the word 'slag' against any female.

Her boyfriend may be lovely but at only 15 years of age she's better off out of a relationship where she has to deal with a person like his mother.

SlimJiminy Thu 04-Dec-14 17:20:30

YANBU. Never an acceptable word.

AnonButRegular Thu 04-Dec-14 17:22:37

There was an argument between the bf and his family. Dd was on the phone to him, his mother said he had to get off the phone because dd is "just some fucking slag"

AnonButRegular Thu 04-Dec-14 17:24:31

Nope, dd is not cheating on him and has not cheated on him. They spend every spare moment together and clearly love each other - she'd do anything for him.

He spends so much time here, I treat him like my own, he's a lovely boy.

Whereisegg Thu 04-Dec-14 17:25:05

shock angry Bloody hell op!
is your dd ok? sad

AnonButRegular Thu 04-Dec-14 17:25:54

Dd is really upset

AnonButRegular Thu 04-Dec-14 17:27:38

I think PortoFino hit the nail on the head - he's lovely, polite, respectful, helpful, is brilliant with dd. I have no qualms about him.

Lookslikeimstuckhere Thu 04-Dec-14 17:27:47

squoosh has explained my point for me, thank you!

I am willing to change my view if it turns out he defended her to his Mother. Although I still maintain she would be best off out of the situation OP has described, given her age.

LadyLuck10 Thu 04-Dec-14 17:27:57

She sounds absolutely vile. She wasn't even thereshock i would be fuming!

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