Sorry this is long as I'm flapping a bit.
My nearly 3 year old DS started nursery in September. He only goes two mornings a week.
I'm a SAHM so I don't have to send him if he is ill. I probably keep him home in circumstances when other parents who have to work will have no choice but to send their DCs in, such as mild temperatures etc.
Since the bad weather began he picked up a cold, or a series of different colds, I'm not sure.
This means he has missed quite a few days of nursery. Not consecutively but still quite a few because of snotty noses, mild temperatures etc. His nose has been running for over four weeks now and I think in the last four weeks, he missed one week entirely and then one day of each of the last three weeks because of cold type symptoms. He also missed one day when he was well, but I had to keep him off because of the 48 hour D+V policy.
I think part of the problem is that in the last few weeks, every time he's been to nursery he picks up something else and it's developed by the time he is due to attend again. Also we have relatives with young DC in another city we visit regularly, so they give each other stuff.
I always email the nursery to notify when he is going to be absent. Today when the practise manager emailed back, she was very pleasant and said she was sorry to hear he was ill and that he seems to be picking up a lot of bugs.
This comment has made me a bit paranoid now. I thought this was fairly normal before and people told me that kids pick up everything the first 6 months of starting nursery. We still effectively have 3 months of the first 6 months to go.
Now I'm worried. I'm worried that DS has some underlying problem. At the same time however I feel silly because I can't imagine that the Doctor will take me seriously as he just appears to have a cold.
Has anyone else found themselves in these circumstances?
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Stripeyclock · 04/12/2014 11:15
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