My just 3yo dd goes to nursery 1 morning a week since about May this year. It took her a while to settle in as I think her key worker didn't really take enough initiative and isn't very warm and cuddly in manner. She always seems to have had a great time when I pick her up.
A few weeks ago she started to say she didn't want to go, so I had a word with nursery and they are helping get her involved with playing with some of the other kids and engaging with her a bit more at handover. However she is not keen on her key worker still.
Last week she was happier to go, this morning a bit ambivalent but no fuss. When we did handover she didn't want to let go of my hand so a member of staff pried her had away from mine (she was really clinging on), told me to go and dragged her off crying, it was horrible and I regret letting it happen.
Not sure what to do now. I'm going to need to mention it at pick up that I don't want that to happen again. Also I don't think this is going to help matters next week at all!
My dd could go to her childminders for the extra morning instead (she goes there 2 days a week and all is great). She is only going to nursery as I thought she'd enjoy it (and ultimately get her used to a school-like environment) and I need a bit of time to clean the house and do jobs.
What do you think?
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Horrible handover at nursery today and dd not wanting to go
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pebblepots · 04/12/2014 10:23
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