It's a long background history of an abusive violent ex who is father to our ds. Finally after years of going back and forth to court the judge ruled that contact is now to take place indirectly only. And also due to the fact that DS doesnt want to see his father.This is to be by email once monthly. Christmas cards,presents, birthday cards to be sent by registered post and cards to be sent on no more than 3 occasions in a year. He has a violent past and is currently on a two year probation term. He has sent birthday package to Ds that also contained an Easter 2014 card with "Not a day goes by I don't fight to see you, I will never give up on you, the day will come when we see each other with no problems, can't wait to see you soon as I should be anyway"
Then he writes in the birthday card "are never give up my fight for you ever, can't wait to see you very soon" he then emails DS " my fight for you will never be over, are never give up on you".
I understand that he misses his ds but he messed up, I feel that he is trying to twist ds head up I'm probably being unreasonable but feel like he is bombarding ds with the fight!
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Berrycool · 04/12/2014 09:04
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