Please go easy on me - this is my first post. I've been lurking for a while (naice ham, pombears, penis beaker etc) but tonight I need the Mumsnet jury to help.
Tomorrow it's my niece's birthday party - normally it would go unsaid that myself and dd1 would pop along. However, the weekend before last my nieces both came down with a horrific sickness bug (think The Omen).
Now I struggle with sickness anyway, being emetophobic for at least 15 years, but I'm currently 7.5 months pregnant and utterly petrified dd1 will catch it. My anxiety has increased dramatically during this pregnancy, so much so that a few weeks ago I spent an entire weekend crying with worry when a sickness bug went round dd1's nursery (heaven knows how she didn't get it, I'm just grateful she was well). I've read that norovirus can live on surfaces for weeks or months, and having relayed this info to my dh he agrees it's a bit dodgy if we go and I'd be in a right old state if dd1 or I get ill. Dh is being really supportive, he hasn't ever seen me sob with anxiety before so he knows it's out of the ordinary, but am I being completely, totally and utterly irrational? I finish work in just a matter of days and I really want to be there so I can see everyone before I go, and if myself or dd1 are ill I won't be able to do this... I have also limited contact with others because of my phobia, and people already think I'm a bit of a moody arse, but I can't help it. I am looking at counselling or therapy after lo is born as it's only going to get worse with 2 kids!
Thanks for reading, please be nice :)
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Nervypreg · 29/11/2014 22:19
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