Aibu to get pregnant again? Or more like - am I completely fucking up my career (decent, fun, a bit glam) if I do?
I have one DS, 9 months, and I am back at work after Christmas. Going back 4 days a week to a new boss who is late 20s and has a reputation for being non family friendly. I think his Thursday and Friday nights involve lots of spanky bars, class As, and pretty girls. Fair enough, but I also know he thinks part timers don't get as much done (I know that now I'm a mum, I can ABSOLUTLEY do my job in 4 days. I can change a shitty nappy on a wriggling eel ffs) and he is single and late 20s so has no concept of family life. We want to try for a second quite quickly. Whilst legally I can absolutley do this, do I need to accept that even in this day and age some people don't "get" that wanting a family doesn't negate ambition and drive, and I may have to accept 5 years of career plateau whilst I have my family? The thing is, I'm sure he's too smart to do anything that would stand up in front of HR, so it's more than he'll just "forget" me for any opportunities. He's also a big fan of my mat leave cover who is staying on and he is talking about leaving her on my patch (it's a sales role). I'm just after some honest experiences - I know in theory my job is safe and I should still be able to advance, but what really happens?!?! TIA.
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To have another baby so soon after return to work?
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Givemecoffeeplease · 28/11/2014 16:20
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