I have posted before about my letter-opening, house decorating MIL.
So myself and DH live abroad and our first DC will be arriving inbetween Xmas and NY via c-section. We have a rough date that the consultant suggested on our last visit but nothing will be booked until December.
My DM had previously booked to fly over for 4 days inbetween Xmas & NY as she is unable to come in Jan (when my due date is) and we didn't know at the time that I would actually be having the baby then. This is a great help to myself and DH as she can stay at our house to look after our dogs, as DH will be staying with me, and also visit me in hospital. She will be leaving before I even get out of hospital and her next visit is planned for Feb half term with my DGM.
So I get a very strange/snotty message off MIL yesterday (DH is currently away) saying that she has heard from other people my DM has flights booked so I've obviously booked a date for baby to come and not told her. I explained that she already had these booked and like I told her before I won't know until my next appointment. To which she replied she was very confused because she had been told my DM wasn't coming until after DHs paternity leave had ended (I have no idea who this has apparently come from) and was very cold/rude and seemed angry about the whole thing?
AIBU to wonder why this really matters??
It sounds crazy but I couldn't sleep last night stressing about it because she went on to ignore my next messages and didn't reply at all which is something she never does.
I think I'm stressing more about the fact this woman will be coming to stay at some point and she's already made me so angry and upset in the past.
Oh and just to add she complains every single time my DM comes out to visit me saying she comes over too much (maybe 6 weekends in a year mostly when DH is away) when she is welcome anytime but choses to holiday elsewhere.
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To think it really doesn't matter?
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Babyleopard23 · 27/11/2014 08:25
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