Okay, here goes... I became good friends with a girl last year when she started working at the restaurant I worked at. We regularly meet up for coffee, nights out, and dinners with our partners. Neither of us work at the restaurant anymore though. Anyway, for the past 2 weeks or so she has been ,quite obviously, ignoring me. Not replying to my texts, or just sending very short/blunt messages. The last time we met up was for a double date with our partners- cinema and dinner out. Anyway, I decided to call her and ask her what was up, had I done anything to offend her. No answer, so I texted. I couldn't believe her reply. Her reply was that she was very sorry but she couldn't be friends with me anymore as her partner liked me too much, and constantly commented about what a good body I have/ told her he wanted to have a threesome with me and her/ said my husband is so lucky to have me.
I'm very upset that she doesn't want to be friends anymore. If this was the other way around and it was my partner, I would have been livid with him, but I wouldn't stop being her friend because of it! I also don't know what to make of her honesty, it has taken me by surprise. Surely it would have been easier to lie or just carry on ignoring me or something? I don't know...
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She doesn't want to be friends anymore as her boyfriend fancies me
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kelliebrookexoxo · 25/11/2014 21:52
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