I just assumed they did, DS loves things like climbing trees and getting muddy, like I did as a child, but he also likes the frozen film and frozen dolls.
Today tesco had a 'frozen event' on, I didn't realise beforehand but we were in town anyway buying him some new stiff, uncomfortable boots to wear with his new, uncomfortable insoles because his feet have become extremely deformed through not walking with the correct support and his knees and legs are a bit out of whack as well. He's very much struggling to walk at the moment and I have to hold him up and help him if you see what I mean so he doesn't fall. It is quite obvious at the moment that he is disabled where it isn't usually and we were quite obviously struggling today.
Anyway as a treat for him being really good and putting them on I decided to take him to look at the frozen event, we queued up for the colouring, at which point a woman pushed past him and sent him flying to get to a chair first with her daughter. There were plenty of chairs. Then gave me a funny look when I sat DS down.
The table was full of girls but DS didn't notice, and the staff were really talking to every child, except DS. Anyway he did his colouring and we walked very slowly to the queue for the free sticker book and really naff crown thing that he was pointing at since we sat down.
When we got to the queue and waited someone pushed past and stood in front of us again, I said excuse me we are in the queue as well and she looked at DS and said 'oh I didn't think you would be' and then carried in standing in front of us.
Then when we got to the front the woman handed him a colouring book and then started talking to the little girl behind him about the crowns, DS was pointing at the crowns and bouncing so I asked if he could have one as well and she said "oh... Ok" passed him one and carried on ignoring him
I felt really shit for him. I don't think it had anything to do with his disability though and everything to do with the fact he's a boy. It really annoyed me, the crown wasn't even a girly thing it was just a naff paper effort with pictures of all the characters on it.
I ended up feeling that I might have been unreasonable to take him to a 'girls thing' but I really didn't think it was.
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Hurr1cane · 22/11/2014 15:01
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