I know I am BU, but have PMS and due to unforeseen financial difficulties, we're looking at a tight Christmas.
DD's best friend is going to Disneyland this spring. She has been going ON and ON about it. DD, therefore, has also been going ON and ON about it.
DD's friend has really been rubbing it in a bit. She comes in to play at our house most days (they are 6) and the Disney talk is constant. She is understandably very excited. DD went to her house one day, and friend was showing her lots of videos of the place.
DD has been full of questions. Why can't we go to Disneyland? EVERYONE ELSE has been, etc etc. I've tried to explain to her that DH and I don't have much money, that different parents like to spend money on different things, that lots of children don't go to Disneyland. And also that I didn't want to hear any more about it, and that if we do go, it will be when she is older and can appreciate it more.
Tonight she ended up in tears, saying her friend was going on about it again, that she feels jealous.
This is all pretty unusual for DD. She isn't particularly fussed on Disney as a rule.
Anyway, I have just watched one of those bastarding Disney adverts and burst into tears. Because we're poooor, and I can't take DD to Disney and waah wah.
It doesn't help that DD's bio dad (who doesn't have any interest in her and doesn't pay maintenance) has been to Disney about six times with his current g/f and her daughter (DD doesn't know this)
I know I need a slap. I don't even WANT to go myself!
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To feel terribly guilty that DD will probably never go to Disneyland?
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JeremyKylesEyebrow · 19/11/2014 20:09
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