NC'd but regular, naice ham, toilet brush, sporn addict, penis beaker...
She is hard work, all my hang-ups come from her. She never babysat or did 'grandma' things unless it was to take photos to boast to her friends. They never came for christmas when my father was alive. He sadly died a few years ago. That christmas she came to me, my DCs and my OH (the DCs stepdad). I then moved 70 miles away with OH, the following christmas she came over to us and it was hard work - never helping but expecting to be waited on, never making a brew herself, expecting meals on the dot of o'clock. Christmas after she went to my brothers, he lives away. She bitched to me all about it afterwards, she likes to bitch. And now we come to this year.
She told me on the phone that perhaps me, my OH and the 3 teenage DCs should go over to hers for the day. She offered to cook - she can't cook so i would end up doing it, in a strange kitchen. She doesn't have a dishwasher and has to have everything in 100s of separate serving bowls so myself and OH would be washing up - a lot. We have a coupe with 4 seats, for 5 of us, yes, i know. If i have more than one drink then i'm an alcoholic and i need to drink a lot when i'm around her! joke...kind of.
She won't come to us because the kennels are fully booked so she can't get the dog in - no way is it coming here. But she fell out with the kennels the last time she used them, long story but basically the owner phoned me in tears - I thought the stupid dog had died but no, it was DM upsetting her.
She sulks, only to me, gives me the death glare which luckily OH and DS3 saw the last time so i'm not going mad and is generally hard work. I could cope if she came here and can find a home for the dog for 24 hours but she doesn't like to ask her friends.
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HellKitty · 19/11/2014 08:53
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