Basically in 7 weeks the registry office has an opening and myself and dp have decided to try to get married on this day. The reason is we both have family in Australia and NZ (a sister each) who will be home for Xmas. As they are coming home we thought it would be great to try and organise a wedding for when they are both home as neither of us would feel comfortable asking them to fly home just for purpose of our wedding due to massive costs of flights, loss of holiday time from work etc.
My question is, is this really feckin possible? We are going to court in a week to see if we can get granted an exemption to marry in under 3 months(usual legal requirement). The lady I spoke to felt that in the circumstances ie family home not likely for another 4 years unless we specifically asked them which I just couldn't put them under that pressure, together 8 years 2 dc etc she felt certain we would get granted an exemption.
I'm thinking I will rent a dress, buy boys a nice outfit in Xmas sales, get v basic rings, sister could take photos as she has a good camera, friend could upload some music that we could play and go for lunch after. Max people is 40 at a guess. (2 large ish families and prob 4-6 v close since kids friends each).
All that said is it madness? Or between that and Santa will it be a disaster and we'd be better off waiting a couple of years. Ds are 6&4.
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honeybuffe · 17/11/2014 12:38
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