Right. I don't know if I'm being unreasonable or not. Been seeing guy for five months. For whatever reason (mainly busy work/social lives on both sides) we haven't had 'the talk' and have been just steadily dating each other a couple of times a week. Last night after a lovely evening at a concert he asked me to be his girlfriend. Very happy, said yes.
I've had a cold coming on for a couple of days and been coughing at night. I stay at his quite often, in fact he's only stayed over at mine once. (nicer house, bigger bed, more centrally located than where I am) so as it was getting toward last train times I said I'd dash off as I didn't want to disturb him during the night being under the weather. He said not to be silly, he wanted me to come back with him. He seemed quite affronted I didn't want to stay because I had a cold and insisted he really wanted me to, so off we went.
Still in early stages so we do tend to have sex whenever we can. So we're in bed, he's put some music on but he's facing the other way when I come in. I've got a lemsip and probably don't look as appealing as normal due to obvious cold symptoms... so I try and cuddle up to him...
Eventually he turns over and says he cannot bring himself to kiss me because of my cold, and he doesn't want to have sex as it's weird without kissing. That was it, no good night hug or anything ..he sort of stroked me with his foot down my leg!
I don't know if I'm being over sensitive..I just felt a bit gross and rejected. I mean, colds are not nice but if he had a cold I don't think I'd outright shun him!
I had an early start this morning (after a night of worrying my coughing was disturbing him so not really sleeping) and when I got up to go he did the leg stroking thing again!
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'There is no way I am not kissing you when you're like that'
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whiskeylemsip · 17/11/2014 11:53
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