Lay in bed stewing over it.
Looooooong history with mil regarding her shockingly bad rudeness. It isn't just saved for me - everyone experiences it although the SIL and myself get extra helpings for good measure especially when I was pregnant.
I know she is a narc.
I've done amazing at keeping her at arms length. Always had my guard up, expected shitty behaviour so wasn't surprised at her little nuggets of goldeness anymore.
I think she could feel the coolness from me and gave dp a 'treat' of a small amount of money. 50/50 split between me and him. Had to buy myself something naice. I havnt yet.
Tonight she came around and we were discussing Xmas dinner. Last Boxing Day she came here. We didn't have a table (still don't)
I said why don't you come with us (were eating out)or bils...
I got in return " no disrespect stale. BUT I'm not sitting having my Xmas dinner on my knee like I had Boxing Day dinner here (pointed to where she was sat) I'd rather cook it myself"... And got quiet offended/annoyed by it
- I didn't fucking invite you to dinner here!
- it was better than nothing you ungreatful bitch!
So I laughed at her. And said no.2 and left out the sweary bit.
She is a massive bell end. Dp knows exactly what she is like and does tell her off somtimes. But what's the fucking point - nothing changes .....
Rant over