DS is 1 this week, for the last 6 months DH, DS and I have been spending part of the week with my parents (allows DH a much shorter commute and I'm still on mat leave). I really appreciate the help, and from I financial pov I would have had to cut mat leave short to cover fuel costs (in the interests of full disclosure my parents are also lending us money to allow me to take the full 1 yr mat leave). My brother also spends a lot if time at their house.
I am grateful for all of this but frustrated that in the last 1 year my husband and I haven't had a night out. Despite living in a house with 3 adults. Never mind a night out, a coffee? A walk? A cinema trip? DS gets looked after for 30 min or so some days if I drop DH off at work. Excluding that there are 3 occasions someone has looked after him. My last haircut (May if anyone wants to judge), a trip to the beach, and 30 min while I packed last week. AIBU
AIBU to think that someone might have noticed and offered to look after him? And no we haven't asked (seems a bit late now). But still.
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Belfastmum32 · 12/11/2014 14:54
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