I've NC. as it's all a bit personal.
I'm so tired of the struggle to get some decent standard of living in this country.
We are so poor.
We live in a 2 bed council flat, DH works very hard, full time in a non-safe job...he's a decorator.
I work part time because I can't seem to get another job which would work with school and we just can't see how we'd afford any childcare...I was hoping to get a 2nd job which might fit in with my first and with school but it's not happening.
We can barely make ends meet. We never go out anywhere...no days out, all my clothes are 2nd hand and the DCs are always bought in sales or 2nd hand.
Something unexpeced like a school book fair can arse up my finances for two weeks....I know the DC don't HAVE to go to the book fair and buy a book but you tell that to your children who never have a new toy unless it's a special occasion and whose entire library is 2nd hand.
And we work! Why shouldn't we have enough money to buy our children a book!
What's gone wrong that everything is so expensive?
We don't have any luxuries, I'm very good at cooking from scratch and all meals are cheap...we have some kind of meat once a week ffs! Because it's too expensive otherwise.
Some days there's no food other than pasta, flour and basics...I don't buy frozen food much as our firdge is tiny and the frozen compartment just about fits a bag of peas and a box of fishfingers in it.
I read on here about people booking to go to Christmas parks and going shopping for this and that and I just get disheartened.
We have the opportunity to move to Australia next year. DH has been offered a job...I told my sister and she was all "You can't be that poor...you earn alright money"
We don't! She couldn;'t be happy that we had a chance to get out of this horrible, tiny flat...
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TiredOfItAllNow · 12/11/2014 11:14
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