DS (6yo) is a very keen learner when it comes to History. He really enjoys it and we talk a lot about history at home, watch programmes and buy childrens history books. DH and I also love all history topics.
At the moment we are talking a lot about WW1 and WW2 because they're currently talking about it at school too. We get a lot of questions from DS so answer as many as we can and show him a lot of (age appropriate) pictures and videos. DS even enjoys watching 'The Chronicles Of Narnia - The Lion, The Witch and The Wardrobe' for the war scenes at the beginning, so you are probably beginning to see how much he enjoys it all. Not only that, but DH is a soldier. He is in the Infantry.
So rewind to why I am pissed off!
DH tonight decided to talk to DS about shell shock, to my dismay!
I was washing dishes after dinner and over heard DH tell DS that he will look for a video on the internet of shell shocked men to show him what it was like. I immediately went through to DH and said no! DS isn't old enough to understand it and I truly believed it would scare him. I have seen videos in the past while watching documentaries and they have scared me too. Not because of the men, of course but because it's such a sad reality coming to life. (IMO)
DH didn't listen and proceeded any way and DS is now petrified. I feel so upset with DH. He went against me and doesn't think there's any problem with showing him! DS apparently needs to see the realities of war? Perhaps he is right? I just feel that there's certain things DS doesn't need to know until he is old enough to fully understand. AIBU to feel so upset? Should I give DH more credit?
Sorry for the huge post! Perhaps the back story wasn't necessary? I didn't want to drip feed.
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FruitCakey · 11/11/2014 18:50
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