Bid am feeling so stressed here and anxious.
To cut a long story short I recently went back to work (April) to work mornings only. The reason I chose those hours is because my son is autistic with ADHD, he sleeps poorly and it was all I could manage. The job involves caring for sa child who is very physically disabled in a mainstream school and so needs a reliable number of staff, I made the third person. Anyhow, job lovely and child fabulous.
Fast forward to September and I return after the summer holidays to find both other LSA staff have left.....one out of the blue.
Since then I have been filling in the extra hours so working all day which I am really struggling to do. The only reason I am doing this is because the child I work with has to have someone and is lovely.the school have advertised for someone new and are interviewing next week. The new person will start in January.
Four weeks prior to half term I let the school know I could not continue with the extra hours as I was literally on the backs of my knees trying to hold work and home together. DS had just started secondary school and was struggling and not sleeping. I was exhausted. The school waited until the week before half term and then asked me to please continue until the new person was in post. As by that point my DS was sleeping a little better I agreed....silly me, I need to learn to say NO.
Now to sickness...I have had two periods of sickness since I started in April. One for three days in September when I injured my back at work. The second since Friday....another back injury due to pulled muscles with coughing (had a cold). The child I work with requires a great deal of manual handling so I am reluctant to risk further injury.
In addition this morning I experienced some horrible symptoms...basically went numb all down my left side, lost vision in my left eye and felt weak. I thought I was having a stroke. It went rapidly and I felt back to normal within five to ten mins. I made an emergency appointment with my GP who has referred me to the mini stroke clinic. I am sat here worrying but also trying to be sensible and think that the fact they don't want to see me until Monday is a positive/reassuring thing. I am not allowed to drive either....which is another stress.
Anyhow I rang the school and spoke with the HT who while lovely and wished me better etc could not stop herself mentioning my sick record because "obviously you have only been here since April".
AIBU in thinking there are better occasions to mention this?
I didn't bloody well plan this to happen.
Or am I being unreasonable? Is this acceptable of her?
I am so anxious at the moment and now I am worrying about going back to work too.
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AIBU?
In thinking that a phone call with a staff member telling you they may have had a mini stroke is not the time to mention a sickness record.
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GratefulHead · 11/11/2014 14:34
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