The last few weeks have been a nightmare.
Firstly DS was quite severely constipated and was up most nights as “his bum hurt”, that is now under control. However, even though DH and I took it in turns to stay up with him I am still exhausted.
DS also seems to have a problem with his back teeth and he screams and cries and resists me brushing them, I have tried to get him in with a dentist but every one we have tried doesn’t have any appointments/wont see him for an initial appointment until Jan (that’s the earliest), So I have tried calling the emergency dentist who wont see him unless he is in pain all the time.
Local govt cuts have seen my dept slashed from 11 people to 2 people and a manager (with still the same workload for 11 people, and the same deadlines), so now I am working more hours for less pay and due to a large piece of work we have we have been told that we cannot take any time off (other than the one day I already have booked), until Christmas.
So I feel absolutely exhausted, work is killing me, I am so tired and mornings and evenings with DS have become a battleground and I cant help him.
Then to top it all, last night DS was crying out loudly while I am brushing his teeth, and someone (I suspect my next door neighbour), shoved a note through my door, to tell me that if they keep hearing DS crying like that, then they will have to call social services, so can I shut him up.
I feel absolutely useless.
I am currently on my way in to work (starting a bit later in the office, was working at home since 7.30 – had to rewrite a cd and my home computer has a better program)
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askyfullofstars · 10/11/2014 09:59
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