Have nc for this. Two weeks ago l split from my partner of 3 years after discovering he had been cheating on me with at least 3 OW for months as well as having an online dating profile. It has completely devastated me, we had talked about getting married & having kids, l trusted him totally and never thought he would be the kind of man to do this. The whole thing is still very raw and l'm still struggling to get through the day without crying.
I don't have close family so friends have rallied round, some visited and all have sent supportive texts (although some have been a bit patronising along the lines of don't worry you'll be over him soon and find someone else when you least expect it )
All of my friends have long term partners, and a few are quite recently married. In the last few years since settling down most of them have tried to avoid going out socially at weekends, preferring to visit each other's houses for coffee (most of them don't drink or drink very little).
I spoke to one of my friends last week and told her how hard l was finding things and that l was dreading weekends in particular when everyone was off doing nice things with their dp's. I explained that right now l just want to get really drunk and go out for a bit of a dance to forget it. In response she sent a group text suggesting we all go over to hers tonight for coffee one of my friends replied excitedly that she was going to bring her wedding photos to show us. I just can't bare the thought of listening to my friends talking about their happy lives and all their exciting Christmas plans with their dp's. I honestly don't begrudge my friends happiness but right now l just don't want to hear about it, it just makes me realise what l have lost and may never have
Another friend has offered to take me out tonight and get very drunk and have a good moan about things. However my other friend has taken the hump saying that she invited me first and that everyone just wants to be there for me. AIBU for avoiding them?
AIBU?
To be avoiding my married friends
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