I'm mainly posting here for traffic, as AIbu is a popular board especially during the day, as realise you're not all ladies of leisure but is still a SEN issue mainly however. ... Some background, a few months ago my reception age ds was pinned and strangled by an older child,very serious incident no dinner ladies saw he had to fught him off crying, scratches on him, to this day i know what he looks like but not whats hes called ..only due to DS much later, pointing out. The HT gave me sone rehearsed halfarsed rubbish on the phone, to this day non of the teachers have spoken, made any effort to rectify this matter. ....now fast forward a few months ds and another boy (same age) have been barneying a few times culminating in a plastic cone fight, and I'm called in for a word. Now.....I've told DS tablet time will be stopped if i hear of more fighting thats a separate issue its been dealt with, however my parents, DH included are quite angry at the blatantly unequal response especially regarding a bullying/safeguarding issue. Also DS ticking i.e loud noises, lack.of personal space when happy/excited and has been punished a few times for it, I do understand that its disruptive i do, put hes also essentially being punished for something he cant control, which cant be maintained its not fair, iv rang the child development centre to get the ball rolling for some support, im just at a loss i feel like hes recieving a very unequal , unfair treatment i.e we care when hes dishing it out, but not when hes on the receiving end. How should i proceed?
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