My Mums sister, my auntie is a nice enough person but 5 years ago when I had DD she totally took over my life, I was single and young so I never questioned it. She put my mum out all the time and she never got to see her granddaughter. This really upset my grandma and dad.
She has had a lot of issues in her life, she had to give her son up for adoption at 16, and she has been married and divorced twice and she has recently fallen in to debt and been declared bankrupt for the fourth time in her life. But her biggest problem out of all that is she can't control herself!
I am currently 8 months pregnant with DC and this time I have a boyfriend and everything is different, his parents are really excited to be grandparents etc. she has already bought me lots of stuff and demanded that I let her come see me in the hospital. I am already embarrassed by how she acts and dresses and behaves towards people but I do love her, she is family and we are a closeish family. Should I talk to her or just leave it, I don't want to upset her but I don't want her ruining the first GC for inlaws! AIBU?
P.s forgot to mention she hates my mum because my mum and dad adopted me 10 years after she had to give her baby up. My mum was only 17 at the time.
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AnniDollxox · 04/11/2014 09:52
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