Have been trying to work out where all our money goes and why we are always in poverty the last week before payday. Added up the cost of all the kids activities and it comes to £350 a month on average! This is for 2 x weekly guitar lessons, a fortnightly piano lesson, fortnightly riding lesson, weekly French tuition, and sporadic driving lesson for the eldest (we have booked 10 but she never seems to be arsed to actually book them).
Have cancelled riding for youngest, guitar for middle one and driving for the eldest, based on which activity each one seemed least interested in. This leaves DS with no activity at all, and DDs having one music lesson each. It also leaves DD1 with extra French tuition which she will need to get through her A level.
Eldest is outraged to lose the driving, DS is complaining bitterly that he loves guitar (despite never picking the bloody thing up between lessons) & youngest is weeping about the riding, although she always moans when it is time to no up yo the stables.
DH thinks I am being unreasonable because it is good for the kids to learn these skills. I think they are not actually learning anything and wasting money we cannot afford.
Am I being mean?
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To tell 3 teenage DCs that I am cancelling their various activities.
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Jynxed · 01/11/2014 23:15
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