Me and my sister were talking , I am a single mum and we were talking about the future and maybe moving on in to relationships.
I turned around and said I wouldn't date a man with kids, well not unless they had full custody.
Now I have many reasons for this , obviously if the relationship were to go far and moving in , kids etc
Then I really wouldn't feel comfy about him seeing my kids more than his own and also of we had kids then my daughter spending more time with there lil siblings that the guys children.
Now I have nothing against or care what others do as in who they date but this is a personal choice just wondering if anyone else has the same worries
My sister laughed at me and said I'm being ridiculous :)
I for one would always welcome step kids in to my home etc they would have as much of a home as my own and as much presents etc so that isn't the reason I think I may just struggle with the above and maybe discipline.
Now the reason I am over thinking this is because the guy I really like has a son.
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AIBU to not want to start a relationship with a man with kids.
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Loveisintheair27 · 31/10/2014 21:06
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