I haven't been with my DP for all that long, and he has often referred to something he'd done in his past that he was ashamed of and made him disgusted with himself, going so far as to say that it's evidence he's not a good person etc., but that a certain group of his friends often joke about. Seeing as I'm meeting this group of friends for the first time next week, and because he was pissed had been drinking, he finally told me what it was.
Now from his self-loathing and shame I'd been expecting something evil or manipulative or malicious. Turns out a few years ago he was on a lads weekend in Amsterdam, had got a bit drunk and depressed, and to cheer him up his friend had slipped him some money and pointed him in the direction of a particularly attractive prostitute, with whom he spent half hour or so.
It doesn't bother me in the slightest. I know it should, but I just see it as he was young, drunk, clearly deeply regrets it and it's in the past. He's shocked by my laid-back reaction and is convinced I must be disgusted with him. I'm not.
AIBU to not think any less of him? I feel like it would be normal to.
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jammygem · 31/10/2014 20:12
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