Having just found flirting emails with a woman in which morning sex etc is discussed. He's doing it from his phone NOW. The laptop I'm using was going to be his but is now mine. It has his outlook loaded though and the messages pop up in a corner.
So this popped up a minute ago:
From DH
Fun sounds good......
Looking forward to giving you a hug...
And you kissing me back.....
The conversation previously started with a selfy of a woman wearing a quite nice going out dress and talk of the time in the morning the message was sent.
DH replied
You will have to think of some methods of waking me up early too then ....;) x
The woman replied
Oh I have my ways ?? don't you just love morning sex !! Xx
DH replied
You will just have to remind me.....
I can't remember the last time I had morning sex:(
The woman replied
This could possibly turn out to be a lot of fun xx
before DH sent the message that popped up
I don't think he's cheated on me. I think he's a prat. I'm sitting here eating a biscuit that DD2 (4) brought for me and drinking tea planning my next move.
Obviously I'm going to shout at him AT LENGTH at some point.
So do I do any of the following - I am a bitchy cow brazen enough to do this.
a) reply to the message chain with. Errr. Hi I'm NCA and my DH is a prat who forgets I have his laptop with his email loaded.
b) Send a friend request to her on FB. After all we have the same taste in men and friendships are based on less.
c) Reply to the text he's just sent me thanking him for taking time out of his day to converse with me rather than just
d) anything else you can recommend bearing in mind all I can find is this convo.
BTW I know that our current lack of intimacy is an issue with him. I am not all that interested in having sex and this has been the case for a few years. We have young DDS and no time to ourselves plus he works away on a regular basis (really works away rather than anything else. He would be able to sneak the odd night away if he wanted but I have his rota and his departure and arrivals home are in keeping with his hours).
So WIBU to reply to them both?
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AIBU?
To do something a bit evil to my stupid stupid DH...
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