I have a 6 year old dd. I'm not with her father and I was never in a relationship with him.
Dds dad has only being involved in her life very rarely but his family was and I really really got on with them. Things with the family went tits up and they started attacking me, grandad shouted and cursed in my face, aunt wrote horrible things on my fb page (I mean the most vile things), cousins harassing me on nights out, my friends get harassed over it and one friend was even pushed and tripped up. I haven't spoken to the family in 6 months.
This past month dds dad is making an effort and I agreed to supervised access (supervised as I don't trust him to run off with her, he's on drugs etc), I made it clear I don't want anything to do with his family. My family and friends are horrified I'm even giving him a chance.
Last night dd was on the phone to him and he put on the granny, I didn't know what to do so just hung up the phone and told dd it went dead.
I'm so angry because I made myself clear and he just thinks he can do what he wants now that we've being getting on a few weeks.
I don't know what to do, I couldn't sleep last night over it. I feel like I've fucked up big time, no1 else would of let his man back in their dds life and now she's building a bond with him again and I'm afraid of what's going to happen.
This is skimming over the details, soooooo much has happened but i would take a book to explain it
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Brokentopieces · 20/08/2014 15:44
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